:( oh no, I'm so sorry for not going out with you last night. I'd just had a really exhausting and bad day at work and needed to go home and sleep it off until I felt better.
It DOES sound like you need a particular group of friends, which is sort of another reason I was trying to organise the ladies poker night. I have a couple of different friends that don't actually hang out together at any time. My best friend is mine and mine alone (we don't go out with anyone else) and then there's really good friends like you and Cheryl. So I was hoping everyone wuold come on board and we can make it a regular thing.. and then we could do other things. But we could do it together, you know? So we'd have our own group to do things, but still have other friends to have fun with.
At the moment I hang out 20% with Kylie, 20% with George & his mates, 20% with you guys, 20% with work friends.. and the other 20% is me being home on my own. It would be great to mix them together a lot. I'm getting to be better friends with some of George's mates, so now I know that if no-one else is free I can call one of them and have a few drinks, you know? Like Ash, he's a top guy. They boys are having a poker night tonight, and if I wasn't going with you, I'd probably be over there with them (inviting you along) or I would be at home.
I think it's nice to have different friends, but i also think you're right - it is very, very nice to have a dedicated group of friends to do everything with.
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Date: 13/1/07 03:15 (UTC)It DOES sound like you need a particular group of friends, which is sort of another reason I was trying to organise the ladies poker night. I have a couple of different friends that don't actually hang out together at any time. My best friend is mine and mine alone (we don't go out with anyone else) and then there's really good friends like you and Cheryl. So I was hoping everyone wuold come on board and we can make it a regular thing.. and then we could do other things. But we could do it together, you know? So we'd have our own group to do things, but still have other friends to have fun with.
At the moment I hang out 20% with Kylie, 20% with George & his mates, 20% with you guys, 20% with work friends.. and the other 20% is me being home on my own. It would be great to mix them together a lot. I'm getting to be better friends with some of George's mates, so now I know that if no-one else is free I can call one of them and have a few drinks, you know? Like Ash, he's a top guy. They boys are having a poker night tonight, and if I wasn't going with you, I'd probably be over there with them (inviting you along) or I would be at home.
I think it's nice to have different friends, but i also think you're right - it is very, very nice to have a dedicated group of friends to do everything with.